there's some good advice in this thread, but it kinda depends on you. What kind of music do you want to play? What kinds of venues do you want to play in? Do you prefer to play with others or are you fine playing with backing tracks? How technically savvy are you? Can you make a CD with backing tracks? If so, you can print up CD covers on the computer and some business cards and contact restaurant owners directly. Find out which places have music. See if you can persuade the owner/manager of a place you'd like to play to try live music. If you'd rather play with other people, can you find a good guitarist or keybd player? A duo makes a nice restaurant gig. Add a bass or drums or both and you've got a band.
Playing music is easy. The hard part is hustling gigs. You have to be out there, making the calls, talking to people, letting them know you can provide music for their event, whatever it may be. You have to have some promotional materials so they can see and hear what kind of music you have.
An alternative to doing this yourself is to have a stage mom or dad.

I'm half-serious. There's a successful rock band of 11-year-olds where I live who have had some very high profile gigs, been on network TV, etc. But they have parents who are really workin' it.
It's hard for me to imagine a 14-year-old hustling gigs on his own. My suggestion is to get some help, either with making music or producing promotional materials and marketing the music or getting the gigs. It's gonna be hard for adults to take a young teen musician seriously unless you can show them you've got the goods.
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